Protocols and PRIDE
If you are wishing to contact me, it is not difficult to use proper form. Ask yourself, how would you approach a person in a position of power?
You would treat them with all the reverence and respect* that they deserve. Why would a Dominant male such as myself be treated any differently? i.e., (If you are wishing to IM me or send an E mail, your first attempt could start out like this.......Sir, if it pleases you may I have a moment of your time?)
Remember that how you present yourself to me or any other Dominant, Male or Female, will determine whether or not you are taken seriously. So, I strongly suggest that you do not waste my or another Dominants time by not using proper Etiquette or Protocol.
If you are just curious about the BDSM Lifestyle and want some information or have questions about myself or another Dominant you may be trying to contact, that is fine, just remember to ask your questions respectfully.
*Respect in most cases is earned by both parties. There are some submissives who feel that before they can call a Dominant Sir or Ma'am that they must first have respect for the Dominant. I respect those beliefs. In such a case I suggest that you address the Dominant by their name i.e., in my case, Lord Dmitri E. Ville. In the case of another, Master who's on first or Mistress what's on second. (see page titled "self proclamations- pet peeves")
If you are already involved in this lifestyle then you know that Humility is important. Your humility will help to lead you to PRIDE in your submission.
Perfection in yourself that allows you to see the emptiness that you need to fill through your submission.
Respect of your personal strength that makes it possible for you to find comfort in giving up control to another.
Integrity is a strong personal character trait to have or develop. Personal integrity is built through being an honorable person.
Dignity so that no one can make you feel worthless. Your gift of submission actually makes you a very valuable person.
Excellence in all that you do so as to never disappoint your owner or ever make them look bad.
You must also remember that the time that I or other Dominants have to give you is more valuable then you can imagine. So, when time is given to you,
DON'T WASTE IT!!
